Closing doors

Megan says the other day that's she's realizing that ruling options out, closing doors of opportunity, and letting go of what doesn't suit is important for freeing up energy for a few things.  My analogy is that if you don't prune grape vines, all you get is leaves and no juicy bits.   Therefore, failing and letting go become important stops on the path to self-understanding and happiness not pointless scenic routes.  And if she deadbolts a door for now and later wants it open, she can unlock it.  She starts talking about crossing things off her mental list and seeing what's left.

Gotta tell you, I'm intrigued.  Been on my mind and in my conversations.  Looking forward to hearing more.